Just like sex with a partner, it is crucial that you spice things up in your own solo play or masturbation session. The more you delve into following your curiosity the more you will heighten your pleasure.
To hit your high note, you’ll need to intensify the manual manipulation and truth be told, there is no one method that works for everyone. Saying that, there are certain stroking styles that are tried and true. Wave the ride of pleasure by trying out these three simple techniques:
The Figure Eight: Use one or more fingers to glide up, over and around your clitoral area, drawing the number eight along the region. By doing this you will stimulate both the clitoris and the inner labia — a haven that has lusty nerve endings within its walls. Some women actually find the labia region more arousing than the clitoris.
The Compass: Hold two fingers out straight, side by side, and run them north to south and east to west over the width and length of your entire pleasure zone. This will awaken your nerves and set your clitoris on fire – it will be craving you to explore a little deeper within.
The Three-Fingers Thrill: Oh this is my favourite and I always have an orgasm within 5 minutes. Use your index and ring fingers to hold open your labia. This frees up your middle finger to stroke the tip of your clitoris. Alternatively you can use one hand to open up your labia and then use the other hand to stimulate. You will know what strikes a chord when a warm, flush feeling starts to set in. The secret is to not be goal orientated, like expecting an orgasm within 10 minutes. You just need to relax into the moment, breath in the pleasure and ride the wave of pleasure as your clitoris becomes more sensitive, your heart rate zooms, your breathing intensifies, and the walls of your vagina begin to contract — all telltale signs you’re bound for bliss.